Bit scared and needing advice in all honesty.

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annabel82
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Bit scared and needing advice in all honesty.

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Master wishes to have me belted when we are not together, He is my first, i guess you might say, "proper" Master.

Despite chastity and denial being one of my biggest kinks, i am, in all honesty; scared. General chaffing, driving, walking, bending over in it.

He already has control of my orgasms, i don't have His permission and i don't touch myself. i had a bit of a break through recently whereby we were going to a fet event at a hotel and i didn't even pack my magic wand. When i pack to go away somewhere i fast forward through the outing (get ready - pack makeup, get hungry - make sandwiches, going to sleep - pack toothbrush), and make sure i have packed stuff i will need. i fast forward and didn't even think about being allowed to cum. 3 months ago the magic wand would have been the first thing in the bag so He is slowly breaking me which is good.

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We are planning on taking a long weekend to Germany to visit Neosteel and getting measured by them, i think we both want to throw money at the problem (within reason) to maximise comfort.

Planning on:

Waistband System Module, ergonomic, adjustable
http://shop.neosteel.com/en/Chastity-Be ... adjustable

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And either:

Female Sports System Module
http://shop.neosteel.com/en/Chastity-Be ... stem-Modul
or
Female Ergo Rear Full System Module
http://shop.neosteel.com/en/Chastity-Be ... ull-System

As a newbie, can anyone summarise the differences and if neosteel is the way to go? Mysteel look good also but i am put off by the comments i have read regarding finish.

Thanks

Anna x
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Tobbe
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Re: Bit scared and needing advice in all honesty.

Post by Tobbe »

Welcome to the Belted Girls annael82!

I would say that your Master will give you a very good thing. Chastity belt is much more than just lock and prevent orgasms. You will understand it better, once you get used to wear your own chastity belt.

My advice is always wire in the back!
Therefore, it becomes Neosteel Female Sports Systems Module with Abus Padlock. A little difficult to get used to the wire at the beginning, but you will realize it much more comfortable and more invisible. If your belt is properly adjusted and you get used to wear it, it´s no problem for you to do everyday tasks. Except for ONE thing! ;)
Every woman should wear chastity belt!
90% of women have never heard of it,
90% of all women who hear about it will find the idea good,
90% of all women who have tried it are enthusiastic.
There remains a lot of work
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msknight
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Re: Bit scared and needing advice in all honesty.

Post by msknight »

When you get to Neosteel, give a little time and see if the Ergo Rear module is available in the system you choose.

You can see it on my Master system here - http://realbondage.co.uk/neosteel.html - but that belt itself might not be possible for you. Have a good chat. Don't rush the conversation. Their standard of English is good, but if you speak German well, then so much the better!

Long story short as I have personally found it ... but don't get too hung up on me, because I'm a bit of a cross-breed...

*) The sports modules on the decent belts have a thick wire. It has even got in the way of me being able to let off wind through the rear passage, which I've found uncomfortable. It also requires using wet wipes.

*) The ergo-rear has taken a bit of time to get used to and is a little more expensive, but I'm preferring it over the sports. Fortunately, in my case, they are modules that I can swap out. Do a lot of talking and thinking.

*) No belt I've tried so far, has been able to stop orgasm; they only prevent penetration.

*) Be fresh when you visit, so that the measuring process goes well. You might be asked to put on socks for hygine; there's still a stigma about certain things in some areas of Germany, if you recall the foot baths at our swimming pools many years ago ... anyway, that's why, so don't worry about it.

*) Be open minded and ask Dr. Mende for all the possibilities that will suit you.

*) These belts take time to mould, so be patient and don't expect to be able to do 24 hour lock ins straight away.

*) There's a great schnitzel place in the same area; they cooked it fresh. Can't remember the address off the top of my head, but if you want I can search through my dash-cam footage and find it again.
Greatcornbow
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Re: Bit scared and needing advice in all honesty.

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annabel82 wrote:Master wishes to have me belted when we are not together, He is my first, i guess you might say, "proper" Master.

Despite chastity and denial being one of my biggest kinks, i am, in all honesty; scared. General chaffing, driving, walking, bending over in it.

He already has control of my orgasms, i don't have His permission and i don't touch myself. i had a bit of a break through recently whereby we were going to a fet event at a hotel and i didn't even pack my magic wand. When i pack to go away somewhere i fast forward through the outing (get ready - pack makeup, get hungry - make sandwiches, going to sleep - pack toothbrush), and make sure i have packed stuff i will need. i fast forward and didn't even think about being allowed to cum. 3 months ago the magic wand would have been the first thing in the bag so He is slowly breaking me which is good.

-

We are planning on taking a long weekend to Germany to visit Neosteel and getting measured by them, i think we both want to throw money at the problem (within reason) to maximise comfort.

Planning on:

Waistband System Module, ergonomic, adjustable
http://shop.neosteel.com/en/Chastity-Be ... adjustable

-

And either:

Female Sports System Module
http://shop.neosteel.com/en/Chastity-Be ... stem-Modul
or
Female Ergo Rear Full System Module
http://shop.neosteel.com/en/Chastity-Be ... ull-System

As a newbie, can anyone summarise the differences and if neosteel is the way to go? Mysteel look good also but i am put off by the comments i have read regarding finish.

Thanks

Anna x
I imagine what's best for you will depend on your situation and if you go to Germany to be measured (excellent idea) Neosteel will happily discuss pros & cons. Y#
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