We are men who love to see women in steel chastity belts, but making it not only for our own.
We obviously want the woman who wears the belt is also included in it. Many people think it´s easy to force a woman to wear the chastity belt.
That´s wrong!
The woman must get herself to try and test how it is. Only brief moments, to adjust the belt so it fits comfortably. Then longer, to learn to do everyday tasks and visit the bathroom without the belt removed. When this works, she can submit the key to her key holder. The key to the second shield, she can keep, but of course, this only locks that lock. Nasty key holder attaches this key on a short chain in the bathroom, with a lock who must be locked with the key..
Every woman should wear chastity belt!
90% of women have never heard of it,
90% of all women who hear about it will find the idea good,
90% of all women who have tried it are enthusiastic.
There remains a lot of work
So the chain keeps the key in the bathroom only? So she cannot take it with her?
Personally, I'd rather have a belt without the secondary shield lock on it. It's bulky and makes a lump in your panties or under stretch leggings. There are some chastity belts that the secondary shield is what the rear chains/ cable is attached to, so removing that will allow the front shield to be pulled away. (unless she has a vagina insert in, then the shield will not be permitted to move away)
It looks like a lock through clothes.
Chastity...fun to wear...horrible to have as a name!
Yes! The key stays in the bathroom and she locks kindly the second shield. It´s a Tollyboy, even without the second shield, it´s impossible to get something which stimulates, between labia.
Locks she not the shield, it will stay in the bathroom and it appears - not follow the rules. Then she not use that key for awhile! Now she has learned good behavior and handles second shield properly. If she wants, she can play for a while with herself in the bathroom, but only gets a bit excited whith the belt on. No orgasm!
She must dress modestly, and in a skirt or dress will the shield or lock not be visible.
Every woman should wear chastity belt!
90% of women have never heard of it,
90% of all women who hear about it will find the idea good,
90% of all women who have tried it are enthusiastic.
There remains a lot of work
Tobbe wrote:Yes! The key stays in the bathroom and she locks kindly the second shield. It´s a Tollyboy, even without the second shield, it´s impossible to get something which stimulates, between labia.
Locks she not the shield, it will stay in the bathroom and it appears - not follow the rules. Then she not use that key for awhile! Now she has learned good behavior and handles second shield properly. If she wants, she can play for a while with herself in the bathroom, but only gets a bit excited whith the belt on. No orgasm!
She must dress modestly, and in a skirt or dress will the shield or lock not be visible.
You're a meticulous man that has this female chastity all thought out, Tobbe!
Love it. Your girl is a very lucky girl to have a man like you as her Keyholder.
Chastity...fun to wear...horrible to have as a name!
Glad you like my way to keep a girl in chastity belt, Pyra.
I have learned that the woman must like the idea to wear it 24/7. Otherwise it will not work. No fun have a woman who constantly complains about the belt, and just want to removed it.
Better instead to hear how she yearn for sex and feel it as a reward. My woman has now become accustomed to always use the belt. She likes the feeling, something is between her legs. Also to mirror naked, only dressed in the mirror finish belt.
Every woman should wear chastity belt!
90% of women have never heard of it,
90% of all women who hear about it will find the idea good,
90% of all women who have tried it are enthusiastic.
There remains a lot of work
If the nucleus of a proper Rule of the Belt is twofold ([1] The Belt must be locked in place whenever wearer and Key-holder are spatially separate from one another. [2] The Belt must be locked in place when any third party is present.), the rest is the pearl around that grain of sand. The issue that makes or breaks Belt usage, is Key-holder conduct: A lass who wears the Belt is in a situation wherein, to a much more significant extent than if she did not wear one, neglect equals abuse. Either a Steel Angel demands extra care and attention to those extra needs she incurs by wearing the Belt, or reality demands them in her name; and this extra care and attention must come from the Key-holder: For she is not able to make use of their equivalents when these are offered by anyone else.
The Crusader myth is just that: A myth -- and a pernicious one into the bargain, as it purports to legitimise neglect. To the contrary, neither Cynthia Anne nor her mother ever wore their Belts longer than twelve hours unrelieved by release. Likewise, in discussion of their "Serious (meaning either parental use, or device or divorce after a wife's adultery, all well outside the ambit of the BDSM/fetish-interest subculture)" cases, both Bill Jones and Mr. H separately told me that 24/7 was distinctly abnormal, frequent release being more normal. I conclude from this that that twelve to fourteen hours is absolutely the longest a Belt should ever remain in place -- and that is pushing it. And when the Belt is released, it does, and does well, for the Key-holder to rub and chafe with his hands, the area of the wearer's waist that the girdle of the Belt covered.
Too, when wearer and Key-holder are alone together in protected space, if she requests release, I see no reason why the Key-holder should even hesitate in doing so. "Protected space" means a place wherein, when they are alone together, they are securely alone together -- more or less guaranteed free from intrusion by any third party. It is easier for her to answer calls of nature without the Belt obtruding, and it is much easier for her to clean up to her satisfaction.
When the Belt comes from its maker, the girdle thereof is in circular or wide oval shape. It is not to be worn immediately in that incomplete shape: It needs further shaping, by hand, to conformity with her waist (The Belt was made for her, not she for the Belt). So does the shield need further hand-shaping.
Yes, wearing a Belt causes the Lady some discomfort and some inconvenience. It is part of the Key-holder's duty (to the wearer, downward from above; and to himself or herself by consistency in silent persuasive activity in aid of keeping the Lady's consent in force) to offset this discomfort and inconvenience, and to minimize it as much as he or she can do. (Our English, "persuasive," derives from the Latin verb, suadere, meaning "[to] Sweeten".) And, yes, this is work. If you are not willing to do that work, do not use the Belt.
The Key-holder must do what is situationally necessary, to make the Rule of the Belt as comfortable to the wearer, as is situationally possible. And, yes, this is work. If you are not willing to do the work, do not use the Belt.
Objectively, The Key is just a few grams of phosphor-bronze. When the Lady assumes the Belt for you, she has granted you a privilege. Each and every privilege comes with its own suite of responsibilities. Inevitably, carrying The Key involves a measure of authority over the Lady; so it does well to remember that authority is power of command based upon the subordinate's trust. If maintaining that trust is anything less than sacred to you, should you use the Belt? Authority comes from the subordinate's commitment; despotism and martinetry come from submission, and if these are your interests whether real or pretended on acount of fetishism, I probably shall disappoint you. In terms of the responsibilities that go with it, The Key figuratively, metaphorically, as-if "weighs a Tonne."
Robert Pinkerton wrote: (The Belt was made for her, not she for the Belt).
Good written Robert Pinkerton, and I quoted in your text, I think describes much about chastity belts and women.
Every woman should wear chastity belt!
90% of women have never heard of it,
90% of all women who hear about it will find the idea good,
90% of all women who have tried it are enthusiastic.
There remains a lot of work
