Lizza1 wrote:Just ask oneself this question. WHY do some men actually wear female belts?!
gotsteel wrote:I haven‘t the faintest idea. I admit utter bafflement on the subject. This is the first I've heard of it.
A female chastity belt is really just a tool to prevent vaginal penetration and depending on the design, also prevent masturbation.
If the same tool is affixed to a man, it will prevent the man from penetrating others and again depending on the design, also prevent masturbation, though with added discomfort because men are "outies" and women are "innies" if you catch my drift.
In the kinky world, there are many kinds of people who explore things not everyone in the population think about that often. There are:
- Sadists - people who enjoy causing pain and discomfort in others.
- Masochists - people who enjoy allowing others to cause them pain or discomfort.
- Dominants - people who enjoy controlling others.
- Submissives - people who enjoy others controlling them.
The reason why the above do the things they do is because it excites them in some way - sexually, psychologically, emotionally, usually a combination of the three.
So, if a Dominant, female sadist wants to apply a female chastity belt to a male masochist submissive, you can likely see why both might enjoy that. A male wearing a female chastity belt is not likely to be "comfortable" because female chastity belts do not need to take into consideration protruding male parts in their design - because they're intended for female bodies which wouldn't have those. So, the men wearing them will either have their privates squashed or they'll have to tuck - which is folding the flaccid penis underneath and back while pushing the testes back inside the body cavities where they were before the male experienced puberty.
Another element of the kinky world is humiliation, and if you can imagine a man going through his daily life with his privates tucked or squashed, held that way by a tightly affixed, heavy piece of metal, that might be very humiliating whether that situation is obvious to the outside world or not. Certainly a business suit would fully cover such a thing. But the man wearing it, knows it's there, and some men really enjoy the humiliation aspect. Those who are Sadists and/or Dominants sometimes enjoy creating a situation of humiliation for those who are masochists and enjoy humiliation in some form.
A female chastity belt can also be physical reminder of the agreed upon power exchange - the man wears it not because he wants to per se, but because he gave partial or complete authority over his being to another person - and that other person decided for their amusement (or whatever), to have the man in a female chastity belt for some, all, or any of the reasons above plus others I haven't mentioned while trying to keep this as simple as I can.
Aside from being a physical reminder of something, it can also be a symbol, much like a wedding band is a symbol of "married and not available". It's usually a symbol of the power exchange - the Dominant having an "I own you" attitude towards the submissive who gave the Dominant some or all power in the exchange. Much like a "collar", except not worn around the neck.
Controlling a man's sexuality by device is a form of power exchange. The man can be locked and the person doing the locking can carry the key with him/her leaving the man sexually helpless, frustrated, humiliated, or whatever else you can think of.
Adding gender to the mix is interesting too, for gender is rather binary from a biological standpoint - male and female - self-perception isn't always that way. For some, the mental perception of their own gender is less binary and more fluid. For others, it's a point of confusion and much pain. A transsexual is a person who is biologically one gender, but innately feels they are of the other gender. Some of them have extensive surgery to make their bodies somewhat match how they feel, others just live as the other gender as-is. Of course there's a whole gammit in between. There are also crossdressers, which are people who wear clothing of the other gender, because they get something out of it physically, emotionally, or sexually, often times a combination of the three. Most of them are hetro, a small portion is not, not that it really matters.
So imagine for a moment all the combinations of the above (and things I haven't expanded on) with varying degrees, and how some of those combinations might actually end up resulting in a male wearing a female chastity belt.
Darlene
