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How do your chastity fantasies fit into reality?

Posted: 29 Mar 2014, 22:14
by Tobbe
A simple question that is not so easy to answer.

How do your chastity fantasies fit into reality?

Re: How do your chastity fantasies fit into reality?

Posted: 29 Mar 2014, 22:42
by ntysecrets
Easy answer... not very well.. ;)

Re: How do your chastity fantasies fit into reality?

Posted: 31 Mar 2014, 17:17
by MindDevourer
Well my fantasies are not neccessarily chastity related, but orgasm control related. They have many touching points, but for me to control someones orgasms, i don't need any physical help. So getting those to turn into real seems easier.

For sure had a lot of fun with this already ;)

Re: How do your chastity fantasies fit into reality?

Posted: 31 Mar 2014, 17:53
by Kellymac3
I guess my fantasy is a reality. I wanted to wear a belt 24/7. And that's what I do. It's hard work sometimes. But I persevere, solve problems and overcome. It's like anything in life, if you want it enough, you'll make it work.
One issue is my KH. He unlocks me when he wants sex and because he wants 'to be kind', he ll sometimes let me sleep unbelted, or shower before my belt goes back on. I'm trying to teach him to be a firmer KH !! ( and don't worry, he's not 'too kind'. This doesn't happen everyday;-)

My only chastity let down is that I can orgasm whilst in my belt. I try not to. But the fact that I can disappoints me. I have only done it a couple of times in 2014 but mentally, just knowing I can orgasm anytime I want, spoils my complete chaste, orgasm denial fantasy...

With regards to wearing the belt 24/7, I'm not sure how that will work in summer. In winter, it's easy to hide a belt under clothes. In the warmer months, the outside pool, the beach?! I'm not sure I will be able to hide my belt then....

Re: How do your chastity fantasies fit into reality?

Posted: 06 Apr 2014, 20:01
by Larrup
Kellymac3 wrote:My only chastity let down is that I can orgasm whilst in my belt.
How and why can you orgasm in your belt? Is it because the belt is too loose? Or is it because you can orgasm with no physical stimulation whatsoever?

Re: How do your chastity fantasies fit into reality?

Posted: 06 Apr 2014, 23:22
by Kellymac3
My belt is not loose, I cannot reach any 'crucial parts'. I can orgasm just by thinking about it, if I really try hard.
If I want to orgasm quickly, I can press on the outside of the belt. The thought of the disconnect between clit and and finger can make me orgasm v quickly.
BUT my belt is thin metal and is tight against my skin. When I receive my thicker metal belt with convex shaping, it may be more difficult.
I try not to orgasm though, I don't want to deliberately cheat the belt and my KH.