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Re: Seeking advice concerning keyholding.

Posted: 23 Dec 2014, 21:00
by Chosen Keyholder
I forgot to mention. No, I did not check if she is belted. I'd rather just assume that she is, and actually believe that she is. Besides, if she's lying, it's to herself anyway. As for switching the keys and locks, I hadn't brought that up either. Again, I think she really is doing it for herself and not for me, or so I feel, so I don't know what there would be for her to gain in keeping a secret key. It would only undermine her goal as I understand it.

Re: Seeking advice concerning keyholding.

Posted: 24 Dec 2014, 06:06
by msknight
Of course people are interested!

One of the reasons why I put the effort behind the web sites is to leave information for other people; it helps others who end up going through the same things, even if it is just to know that other people came out the other side and were OK it can help. The realbondage site has been up since 2002 now.

I know one thing that would be a good question to ask next time you meet; what model of belt did she settle on in the end.

Re: Seeking advice concerning keyholding.

Posted: 24 Dec 2014, 20:26
by Chosen Keyholder
msknight wrote:Of course people are interested!

One of the reasons why I put the effort behind the web sites is to leave information for other people; it helps others who end up going through the same things, even if it is just to know that other people came out the other side and were OK it can help. The realbondage site has been up since 2002 now.

I know one thing that would be a good question to ask next time you meet; what model of belt did she settle on in the end.
Thanks, Ms Knight. And good points. Can help others in the same situation.

Next time I will ask her what kind of belt.

I am curious though, is it common for people to lock their keys in a security box and give the keys to the box to the other person? She was insisting it is safer in a medical emergency since technically the keys are still in her possession even if she needs a specialist to break the box open.
It seems to make sense, especially when traveling. But is it really common for people to do that?

Re: Seeking advice concerning keyholding.

Posted: 24 Dec 2014, 20:32
by Chosen Keyholder
We will probably meet face to face again some time next week. I would rather ask what kind of belt face to face. As for myself, I settled for the Jail Bird by Mature Metal. I liked the utilitarian design.

Re: Seeking advice concerning keyholding.

Posted: 29 Dec 2014, 03:14
by Chosen Keyholder
My Steel.

Re: Seeking advice concerning keyholding.

Posted: 29 Dec 2014, 08:20
by Tobbe
Nice! Then she has invested in an expensive belt and certainly serious about using it. At first I thought she just bought an adjustable from China.

Re: Seeking advice concerning keyholding.

Posted: 30 Dec 2014, 15:11
by Chosen Keyholder
Sorry, I misremembered since we had discussed chastity belts in general. It's a neosteel.

Re: Seeking advice concerning keyholding.

Posted: 30 Dec 2014, 15:14
by Chosen Keyholder
She said she chose that one because it appeared to be the best for 24/7 use based on her online research. She was considering comfort (including hygiene) and security. Though she has some doubs on whether it was the best option, she is satisfied that it is at least a good option, maybe the best or at least among them.

Re: Seeking advice concerning keyholding.

Posted: 30 Dec 2014, 22:11
by Tobbe
Neosteel produces very good and safe chastity belts, if she has the model with a padlock from Abus.
Still, I would suggest a thorough cleaning at least once a week.

Re: Seeking advice concerning keyholding.

Posted: 31 Dec 2014, 16:03
by Greatcornbow
Chosen Keyholder wrote:Sorry, I misremembered since we had discussed chastity belts in general. It's a neosteel.
Sounds good to me. But I still think you ought to get a look at it. And if it's a Neosteel with an Abus lock you can check the keys are the right ones too (even change the lock if you like). After all, if you're to be locked and you go for the keysafe arrangement then it's the same goes for both of you.