I think I want to try this again
Posted: 18 Aug 2015, 04:43
I haven't been locked in a LONG time and feel like a complete newbie to all of this. I remember at one time Tobbe had posted reasons why all women should be in chastity, but I can't seem to find the post, I am likely overlooking it.
Anyway, I am frankly turned on and terrified of being locked again. I know the last time I was locked I experienced quite a bit of pain as my body struggled to adjust to the rigidity of the belt. As in, not being able to bend at the waist, twist and even find a comfortable position to sleep in. I was STIFF and felt like I was in a body cast.
I am still with the same person, we are long distance right now because of his work.
I am allowed to touch myself, I am not allowed to penetrate myself and I am not allowed to reach orgasm without his permission. I haven't had any trouble following these rules, and don't even remember the last time that I did have an orgasm.
My fantasy/dream of being locked away from myself (and anyone who doesn't have the key) has been alive since I was very young.
How do I smoothly transition into the belt? Is there a smooth transition? Should I use Emlalock or have someone who can remotely keyhold like Emla does? Should I simply lock myself up and struggle through using tylenol etc until my body adjusts to the rigidity and the new ways I have to move to accommodate the belt?
What about the chastity bra? It excites me but I am always fearful that it will be noticed. With fall just around the corner clothing will make hiding these things more easy. Can the bra be worn 24/7 365? How do you clean under it if you can?
Finally, I have a question about menstruation. I have always used tampons or a cup. Is it reasonable to be unlocked every 28 days for 5-7 days or does that completely defeat the purpose?
I have been looking around and seen a lot of people saying they can put a pad under the waist band and wiggle it into place under the shield. In the past I had never tried to get anything under it in such a way, but this makes me think that these belts are too loose. Is that the case?
Okay, finally again, sorry, the waist band on my current belt is not the ergo type, it goes straight around my belly, and because I have quite a bit of extra weight it causes me to look quite misshapen, it doesn't hurt, rub or move when it is that tight (I can't push it down like if i were to loosen it) but is that "dent" safe/healthy?
It is frustrating to know how things are supposed to fit the average woman when the models are often 90lbs and 6ft tall.
Thank you for your guidance.
~M
Anyway, I am frankly turned on and terrified of being locked again. I know the last time I was locked I experienced quite a bit of pain as my body struggled to adjust to the rigidity of the belt. As in, not being able to bend at the waist, twist and even find a comfortable position to sleep in. I was STIFF and felt like I was in a body cast.
I am still with the same person, we are long distance right now because of his work.
I am allowed to touch myself, I am not allowed to penetrate myself and I am not allowed to reach orgasm without his permission. I haven't had any trouble following these rules, and don't even remember the last time that I did have an orgasm.
My fantasy/dream of being locked away from myself (and anyone who doesn't have the key) has been alive since I was very young.
How do I smoothly transition into the belt? Is there a smooth transition? Should I use Emlalock or have someone who can remotely keyhold like Emla does? Should I simply lock myself up and struggle through using tylenol etc until my body adjusts to the rigidity and the new ways I have to move to accommodate the belt?
What about the chastity bra? It excites me but I am always fearful that it will be noticed. With fall just around the corner clothing will make hiding these things more easy. Can the bra be worn 24/7 365? How do you clean under it if you can?
Finally, I have a question about menstruation. I have always used tampons or a cup. Is it reasonable to be unlocked every 28 days for 5-7 days or does that completely defeat the purpose?
I have been looking around and seen a lot of people saying they can put a pad under the waist band and wiggle it into place under the shield. In the past I had never tried to get anything under it in such a way, but this makes me think that these belts are too loose. Is that the case?
Okay, finally again, sorry, the waist band on my current belt is not the ergo type, it goes straight around my belly, and because I have quite a bit of extra weight it causes me to look quite misshapen, it doesn't hurt, rub or move when it is that tight (I can't push it down like if i were to loosen it) but is that "dent" safe/healthy?
It is frustrating to know how things are supposed to fit the average woman when the models are often 90lbs and 6ft tall.
Thank you for your guidance.
~M