looking for advice and coments MAYBE new belted
Posted: 28 Feb 2016, 01:36
I'm new to this, so I want to give you some background and maybe some of you can give me some advice.
I have been married for 25 years. My husband was my High school sweetheart we got married when I was 20 and he was finished with college. We have one child, My son that now is grown and out of the home. We live on a small farm, in a very old farm house. We no longer have animals (except dogs) and don't grow any crops- really just a little old house and a lot of land.
We have had a “plain” sex life. We did a little bit of bondage stuff when first married, but that stopped with the birth of our son. Frankly our sex life has not been great while our sun was growing up as his bedroom is right next to ours and we have had to be very quite to avoid him overhearing.
Now that my Son is out of the home, we can do what we want when we want Problem is, my husband doesn't get aroused much anymore. A couple of years ago I had to have a D&C and they shaved my pubic area. This turned my hubby on, and I keep the area clean as a babies butt and I'm rewarded with unbelievable oral sex. I had my best girlfriend out to the house a few months ago and after a few glasses of wine, we started talking about our sex lives. This led to her telling me that she could 100% garentee the best sex I had ever had if I went along with her suggestions. We ended up raiding the barn for a bunch of bridle leather and she made cuffs for my ankles, wrists, and a thick leather choker. These were crude, and just tied together with some rawhide, but once she had me tied into them, I could not use my hands to untie myself, and that's the was she left me for my husband to find when he came home from work.
Well she was right about the sex when he got home, but what I didn't expect was how excited I got while waiting for him confined as I was. The next morning she called and we chatted like little school girls. I had no idea that she and her husband did this stuff all the time because it increased both of their sex drives. She invited her self out for Friday and arrived with some tools and hardware. Come to find out they did some armature leather work. She riveted loops on the cuffs we had made and open up the holes into slots and made the cuffs so they could be “locked” shut. We didn't have locks for them, but she had brought small “chain connectors”. I don't know what else to call them, sorta like a single chain link that has a screw apart side so you can hook any two loops together the “lock” them by screwing the one side closed. I wish I knew what to call them, Anyway, they make it impossible for me to unhook them, but someone else can fairly quickly unhook them and then hook them to something else. She also made up some straps that went over the bed legs and came up on the mattress so I could be “locked” to the bed. Which is where she left me for my husband to find.
Once again the sex was fantastic. Frankly, the best we have ever had. (don't get me wrong, my Husband is an excellent love maker and always brings me to multiple organisms. He liked it so much, that after we showered and got dressed, he put them back on me and took me to the home improvement store where he bought 6 small locks that were all keyed the same. Once back out in the car, the chain joiners were replaced with locks. I have no idea why, but this got me very excited. We went out to eat after and I was sure everyone could see my unusual bracelets (I was wearing jeans so I didn't worry about the ones on my ankles. After eating, we drove to a near by town and went into the saddlery where he found some wide heave leather straps and some brass hardware. When we got home he made a wide leather collar for me. Its just plain brown leather about 2 inches wide which he locked around my neck in the back. Again, this made me very hot for some reason and once again we had some outstanding sex. I wore the collar all weekend and we had more sex in a weekend they we had in a year. On Monday he unlocked the collar and cuffs and went off to work. This became a “special weekend” thing
My girlfriend was back out the next Friday. I showed her how the cuffs had evolved and the new collar. She was very cross with me. And made me put the collar on and locked it in place! Then he said she wanted to show me something that got Rick so turned on she couldn't believe it. She pulled off her jeans and lifted he blouse to show me a chastity belt! Now I had heard about such things, I remember my hubby kidding about locking me up in one when we were first married, but I didn't think they were really worn by people. I had no idea!
What she was wearing was something they had made. It was a wide leather belt around her waist a second belt that came between her legs. In the back one side of the waist belt had riveted so it was vertical. The other side of the belt had several slots and the belts between her legs had a couple of slots. Basically they had pulled the waist belt tight around her waist and put it over the d-ring. Then they pulled the belt between her legs up and hooked it over the same D-ring. Then a padlock was passed threw the d-ring so the two belts could not be undone.
We spent the next couple hours making one for me. The hardest thing was making the slots, but Sally knew how to do them and in the end they were done. Then the embarrassing part as she tightened the waist belt around me with no panties on and located where my “pee hole” should be. She made a hole and put a brass grommet in it so in effect I had a brass pee hole.
My husband came home that night to find me in collar, cuffs, a too small push up bra, my highest heels and a leather chastity belt. I'm surprised we didn't break the lock as many times as I was in and out of the Chasity belt that weekend. And every weekend since. Form somewhere he got a much better lock. It is heavier and takes a much better key.
That's a long way of getting to here. There have been several changes. From somewhere he got (or had made) a stainless collar that fits very tightly around my neck. It has a hidden hinge on one side and the other joins together with a hidden screw. He made a big deal about putting it on with green locktite and no one would be able to take it off short of sawing in off. When you look at it, it looks like I have a solid “silver” (polished SS) collar around my neck. He also got me similar bands for my wrists and ankles. The are very tight fitting and look like they are one piece until you find the small joint. I now have several pairs of Very very high heals. I have a larger selection of dresses and skirts to wear every weekend (with no underwear) And now we are both talking about getting a “real” chastity belt.
My biggest problem is that it seems like most things I look at are for dress-up and not for real use. I have been looking all over the internet and that is how I ended up here. While I don't believe some of what I see posted here, I believe that there are a number of you that really do wear belts full time.
Now we are are not talking about him locking me up and leaving for a month. We are more thinking that I will be able to clean up and shower every morning. This will also let me keep up my shaving as he will not give me oral sex if there is any hair down there. We really don't know what to do during my time of month. After the 2nd day, I can go 8 hours or more on a single tampon, so we are really only talking about a day or two.
(totally off subject, but do any of you actually like have sex during your period? I love it. I honestly think it makes it much easier to get thru and now a days my husband has no problem with it)
Is there anyone that makes a 24-7 belt in the US? I am assuming we will be getting something like the one we made, that is with a belt up around my waist, but I see some of the pics with belts that ride lower. I'm thinking these are more for dress up then real use. But I don't know. I have only been using this leather belt we made for a while. But I still get very aroused when I wear it. I can't help but wonder if that will be the same when I get a real belt.
I hope I will get some tips and comments from some of you that wear a belt for long times
Thanks!
Libby
I have been married for 25 years. My husband was my High school sweetheart we got married when I was 20 and he was finished with college. We have one child, My son that now is grown and out of the home. We live on a small farm, in a very old farm house. We no longer have animals (except dogs) and don't grow any crops- really just a little old house and a lot of land.
We have had a “plain” sex life. We did a little bit of bondage stuff when first married, but that stopped with the birth of our son. Frankly our sex life has not been great while our sun was growing up as his bedroom is right next to ours and we have had to be very quite to avoid him overhearing.
Now that my Son is out of the home, we can do what we want when we want Problem is, my husband doesn't get aroused much anymore. A couple of years ago I had to have a D&C and they shaved my pubic area. This turned my hubby on, and I keep the area clean as a babies butt and I'm rewarded with unbelievable oral sex. I had my best girlfriend out to the house a few months ago and after a few glasses of wine, we started talking about our sex lives. This led to her telling me that she could 100% garentee the best sex I had ever had if I went along with her suggestions. We ended up raiding the barn for a bunch of bridle leather and she made cuffs for my ankles, wrists, and a thick leather choker. These were crude, and just tied together with some rawhide, but once she had me tied into them, I could not use my hands to untie myself, and that's the was she left me for my husband to find when he came home from work.
Well she was right about the sex when he got home, but what I didn't expect was how excited I got while waiting for him confined as I was. The next morning she called and we chatted like little school girls. I had no idea that she and her husband did this stuff all the time because it increased both of their sex drives. She invited her self out for Friday and arrived with some tools and hardware. Come to find out they did some armature leather work. She riveted loops on the cuffs we had made and open up the holes into slots and made the cuffs so they could be “locked” shut. We didn't have locks for them, but she had brought small “chain connectors”. I don't know what else to call them, sorta like a single chain link that has a screw apart side so you can hook any two loops together the “lock” them by screwing the one side closed. I wish I knew what to call them, Anyway, they make it impossible for me to unhook them, but someone else can fairly quickly unhook them and then hook them to something else. She also made up some straps that went over the bed legs and came up on the mattress so I could be “locked” to the bed. Which is where she left me for my husband to find.
Once again the sex was fantastic. Frankly, the best we have ever had. (don't get me wrong, my Husband is an excellent love maker and always brings me to multiple organisms. He liked it so much, that after we showered and got dressed, he put them back on me and took me to the home improvement store where he bought 6 small locks that were all keyed the same. Once back out in the car, the chain joiners were replaced with locks. I have no idea why, but this got me very excited. We went out to eat after and I was sure everyone could see my unusual bracelets (I was wearing jeans so I didn't worry about the ones on my ankles. After eating, we drove to a near by town and went into the saddlery where he found some wide heave leather straps and some brass hardware. When we got home he made a wide leather collar for me. Its just plain brown leather about 2 inches wide which he locked around my neck in the back. Again, this made me very hot for some reason and once again we had some outstanding sex. I wore the collar all weekend and we had more sex in a weekend they we had in a year. On Monday he unlocked the collar and cuffs and went off to work. This became a “special weekend” thing
My girlfriend was back out the next Friday. I showed her how the cuffs had evolved and the new collar. She was very cross with me. And made me put the collar on and locked it in place! Then he said she wanted to show me something that got Rick so turned on she couldn't believe it. She pulled off her jeans and lifted he blouse to show me a chastity belt! Now I had heard about such things, I remember my hubby kidding about locking me up in one when we were first married, but I didn't think they were really worn by people. I had no idea!
What she was wearing was something they had made. It was a wide leather belt around her waist a second belt that came between her legs. In the back one side of the waist belt had riveted so it was vertical. The other side of the belt had several slots and the belts between her legs had a couple of slots. Basically they had pulled the waist belt tight around her waist and put it over the d-ring. Then they pulled the belt between her legs up and hooked it over the same D-ring. Then a padlock was passed threw the d-ring so the two belts could not be undone.
We spent the next couple hours making one for me. The hardest thing was making the slots, but Sally knew how to do them and in the end they were done. Then the embarrassing part as she tightened the waist belt around me with no panties on and located where my “pee hole” should be. She made a hole and put a brass grommet in it so in effect I had a brass pee hole.
My husband came home that night to find me in collar, cuffs, a too small push up bra, my highest heels and a leather chastity belt. I'm surprised we didn't break the lock as many times as I was in and out of the Chasity belt that weekend. And every weekend since. Form somewhere he got a much better lock. It is heavier and takes a much better key.
That's a long way of getting to here. There have been several changes. From somewhere he got (or had made) a stainless collar that fits very tightly around my neck. It has a hidden hinge on one side and the other joins together with a hidden screw. He made a big deal about putting it on with green locktite and no one would be able to take it off short of sawing in off. When you look at it, it looks like I have a solid “silver” (polished SS) collar around my neck. He also got me similar bands for my wrists and ankles. The are very tight fitting and look like they are one piece until you find the small joint. I now have several pairs of Very very high heals. I have a larger selection of dresses and skirts to wear every weekend (with no underwear) And now we are both talking about getting a “real” chastity belt.
My biggest problem is that it seems like most things I look at are for dress-up and not for real use. I have been looking all over the internet and that is how I ended up here. While I don't believe some of what I see posted here, I believe that there are a number of you that really do wear belts full time.
Now we are are not talking about him locking me up and leaving for a month. We are more thinking that I will be able to clean up and shower every morning. This will also let me keep up my shaving as he will not give me oral sex if there is any hair down there. We really don't know what to do during my time of month. After the 2nd day, I can go 8 hours or more on a single tampon, so we are really only talking about a day or two.
(totally off subject, but do any of you actually like have sex during your period? I love it. I honestly think it makes it much easier to get thru and now a days my husband has no problem with it)
Is there anyone that makes a 24-7 belt in the US? I am assuming we will be getting something like the one we made, that is with a belt up around my waist, but I see some of the pics with belts that ride lower. I'm thinking these are more for dress up then real use. But I don't know. I have only been using this leather belt we made for a while. But I still get very aroused when I wear it. I can't help but wonder if that will be the same when I get a real belt.
I hope I will get some tips and comments from some of you that wear a belt for long times
Thanks!
Libby