I'd just like to share my thinking with those who know the subject, so you can tell me if I'm not heading down the best path.
I have had one of the cheapo Chinese belts for a while, and am looking at stepping it up a gear. Not 24/7, mostly out of discretion concerns - too risky for work. Just being able to do it for longer periods of time.
The cheapo Chinese belt is hot for play, but it's not secure and not at all comfortable. It's fine for a couple of hours, but no more after then, and definitely cannot sleep in it. Most irritation is at the hips, and the front of where my thighs meet my crotch.
My priorities are in this order:
1. Comfort - I need to be able to stay in it for a couple of days, including at night
2. Discretion - would be nice to be a bit flexible in being able to go outside, even if I won't take the risk of work
3. Security - definitely a big concern, but I have self-control. I'm not going to learn to become a contortionist to get around it.
I'm also not made of money, so whilst I haven't placed it, cost is an unavoidable factor.
I'm looking mostly at this one: https://www.chastityco.com/collections/ ... stity-belt
Reasons:
- The ergonomic waistband should help with the hip irritation
- Looks discreet
- Cheaper than some other places I've looked at
- Doesn't appear to have the damn neoprene liner on the main belt part
- I think the rear string would be better in the long term in terms of comfort and particularly discretion? Though I've seen people saying that it's less comfortable. Defecation should be alright??
- As far as I can tell, Access Denied is a recently revived shop, so therefore there's a lack of review risk.
- Secure?