I hope this is the right place for this. The other day I was locked into a belt (surprise) after I was caught for the millionth time pleasuring myself. I promised to be good etc and I really meant it so after about a day he released me with a firm warning that I was not to touch myself except for hygiene. Well this evening he caught me again and I really feel torn because i want nothing more than to please him but i find my hands wandering and by then its obviously too late. So I am locked in the belt again. This time it is also a session, created by him, on emla that can be voted on. The duration max is set to unlimited which has me rather frightened as I lay here writing this. I was told to encourage anyone who wanted to visit the link and vote for added time or subtracted time.
https://www.emlalock.com/?page=friend&i ... mw0zdn0mkl
Has anyone on here been in forced chastity before? How do you deal with it? The waist belt is so tight and unforgiving, as is the entire belt, i cant feel or touch myself in any way and the fact that I cant contort as the belt keeps me from bending at the waist ensures that i dont get into an odd position. Now that I have laid down for the night I dont even want to try and get up because i imagine that will be grueling in itself. Also, is my belt supposed to be so tight that deep breaths are more limited?
How do I convince him that I will behave and not self indulge so I can be free of this? Thank you everyone!
My Hubby Caught Me... again!
Re: My Hubby Caught Me... again!
I think you turned yourself to the wrong forum! 
Here we want to see women wearing chastity belt and not give them tips how to avoid it. Chastity Belt is not a punishment, rather a privilege to you, and allows you to concentrate to anything other than your sex. You have admitted that you are spending too much time to pleasuring yourself, and the chastity belt is a great tool to get you on second thought. If it´s right fitted and don´t cause any sores on your skin, you should of course wear it 24/7.
What is the type of chastity belt you have?
Here we want to see women wearing chastity belt and not give them tips how to avoid it. Chastity Belt is not a punishment, rather a privilege to you, and allows you to concentrate to anything other than your sex. You have admitted that you are spending too much time to pleasuring yourself, and the chastity belt is a great tool to get you on second thought. If it´s right fitted and don´t cause any sores on your skin, you should of course wear it 24/7.
What is the type of chastity belt you have?
Every woman should wear chastity belt!
90% of women have never heard of it,
90% of all women who hear about it will find the idea good,
90% of all women who have tried it are enthusiastic.
There remains a lot of work
90% of women have never heard of it,
90% of all women who hear about it will find the idea good,
90% of all women who have tried it are enthusiastic.
There remains a lot of work
Re: My Hubby Caught Me... again!
I must admit I agree with Tobbe
The facts are you cannot be trusted to abstain from playing with your self.
The thought of not getting up is a silly one. The belt may well be noticeable lying down but once you are up and moving about doing house hold chores your brain will switch its attention away from discomfort to mild discomfort. More so as the liner warms against your body. For sore spots baby powder works.
Your body will adjust and if you watch your food intake over the next week or so belted you will soon fit the belt with ease. Apart from that I am sure your husband wants to make you appreciate his willingness to be your key holder
I suggest that you do not annoy him in case he thinks that your doing it to stay locked longer.............
We would like to know more about your belt and how long you have worn it previous to this event
The facts are you cannot be trusted to abstain from playing with your self.
The thought of not getting up is a silly one. The belt may well be noticeable lying down but once you are up and moving about doing house hold chores your brain will switch its attention away from discomfort to mild discomfort. More so as the liner warms against your body. For sore spots baby powder works.
Your body will adjust and if you watch your food intake over the next week or so belted you will soon fit the belt with ease. Apart from that I am sure your husband wants to make you appreciate his willingness to be your key holder
I suggest that you do not annoy him in case he thinks that your doing it to stay locked longer.............
We would like to know more about your belt and how long you have worn it previous to this event
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babydoll28
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Re: My Hubby Caught Me... again!
you think that a good starting off point is a week? i was thinking more like a day or two... i have no idea how to get over the discomfort of everything. Especially the restriction in movement... I found out that he has also purchased some thigh things that go with the belt and can be attached in the center to prevent my from spreading my legs. He said if i end up with those on as well that I wont be allowed to or able to pull on pants because of the connector in the middle... I really messed up. I had no idea he was this serious. He also has threatened me with the steel bra because "no one else needs to know" what i look like.... is anyone here wearing the bra and the belt full time?? how hard is it to get used to not being able to feel anything?
Re: My Hubby Caught Me... again!
I am female, like you and have recently started wearing a chastity belt.
I chose to do this, although my partner is being more actively engaged in my belt wearing now.
I like to pleasure myself too. Belt helps with that mentally and physically. At first I was frustrated and a bit scared. Now it's OK. I am more concerned with keeping myself free from the pain that can occur from wearing a belt.
If you behave, you will not get further restraints. Although maybe you want them?
If you have any questions about how to relieve discomfort etc, then please PM me
I chose to do this, although my partner is being more actively engaged in my belt wearing now.
I like to pleasure myself too. Belt helps with that mentally and physically. At first I was frustrated and a bit scared. Now it's OK. I am more concerned with keeping myself free from the pain that can occur from wearing a belt.
If you behave, you will not get further restraints. Although maybe you want them?
If you have any questions about how to relieve discomfort etc, then please PM me
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Robert Pinkerton
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- Sex: Male
Re: My Hubby Caught Me... again!
Is this Serious?
Because a correctly-fitted chastity belt is a few millimeters tighter than skintight, it retards upward-return circulation of blood from the legs, therefore mimicking natural sexual arousal by engorgement of the pelvic region. As this is so, I respectfully submit that it is necessary for a Key-holder to enable his Steel Angel (term for a Lady who wears the Belt, taught to me by my late second fiancee and her parents) to masturbate. Using the Belt permanently to repress a Lady's masturbation is cruelty (but then, historically, how much cruelty to children and adolescents has been "justified???" by parental masturbation-terror?).
The narrative sounds to me like the husband abusing his wife by means of the Belt -- and abusing the Belt in the process (just as using a handgun to facilitate perpetration of a crime is abuse of the handgun).
Because a correctly-fitted chastity belt is a few millimeters tighter than skintight, it retards upward-return circulation of blood from the legs, therefore mimicking natural sexual arousal by engorgement of the pelvic region. As this is so, I respectfully submit that it is necessary for a Key-holder to enable his Steel Angel (term for a Lady who wears the Belt, taught to me by my late second fiancee and her parents) to masturbate. Using the Belt permanently to repress a Lady's masturbation is cruelty (but then, historically, how much cruelty to children and adolescents has been "justified???" by parental masturbation-terror?).
The narrative sounds to me like the husband abusing his wife by means of the Belt -- and abusing the Belt in the process (just as using a handgun to facilitate perpetration of a crime is abuse of the handgun).
Re: My Hubby Caught Me... again!
I respectfully reply to Robert, that a belt a few millimetres tighter than the skin will not retard blood flow. The major arteries and veins are deep within the body cavity. Squeezing the skin and subcutaneous fat of the torso will not achieve that......
Yes a key holder can abuse their power. But if a key is given willingly and the key holder respects their partner. I feel that repressing a woman's masterbation is a good thing because when she is released, the intimacy and enjoyment is so much more. It's working for us ;-)
Yes a key holder can abuse their power. But if a key is given willingly and the key holder respects their partner. I feel that repressing a woman's masterbation is a good thing because when she is released, the intimacy and enjoyment is so much more. It's working for us ;-)
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babydoll28
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Re: My Hubby Caught Me... again!
Do I want to be locked up for an indefinite amount of time? NOOOO! However, my hubby/owner/Master/love etc has asked me to relinquish control to him in many areas of my life, which I have been totally agreeable to. It is not like I was drugged and forced into the belt and woke up in some horror story. I knew the actions had consequences which I had previously agreed to.
That said, I really don't want to wear this 'thing', and I have been assured this is for my own good, which i believe to be true. I just never fully expected the fantasy to become reality and i am actually rather frightened by the fact that I don't know if or when I will gain release from the belt. I am sick right now as well and was told to get plenty of sleep and bedrest by the doctor today. Master is not home to even take into consideration my access to the key. I know he wouldnt leave me like this when I am sick.
So, aside from my beings sick, how should i behave etc to show him that I am very serious about being obedient about this and that it won't happen again? I will be at home "resting" for at least a week and if he trusts me to behave i may get that freedom so i can remain comfortable. Perhaps there is another way for him to ensure I don't touch myself, like those padded mitts that lock on or even shackles that attach to my collar preventing my arms from being able to reach that far?
Does anyone have any idea what I should do so i can get some decent rest? Thank you.
That said, I really don't want to wear this 'thing', and I have been assured this is for my own good, which i believe to be true. I just never fully expected the fantasy to become reality and i am actually rather frightened by the fact that I don't know if or when I will gain release from the belt. I am sick right now as well and was told to get plenty of sleep and bedrest by the doctor today. Master is not home to even take into consideration my access to the key. I know he wouldnt leave me like this when I am sick.
So, aside from my beings sick, how should i behave etc to show him that I am very serious about being obedient about this and that it won't happen again? I will be at home "resting" for at least a week and if he trusts me to behave i may get that freedom so i can remain comfortable. Perhaps there is another way for him to ensure I don't touch myself, like those padded mitts that lock on or even shackles that attach to my collar preventing my arms from being able to reach that far?
Does anyone have any idea what I should do so i can get some decent rest? Thank you.
Re: My Hubby Caught Me... again!
I am lost for words ....
Re: My Hubby Caught Me... again!
Baby doll, I told you earlier if you really need help, please PM me but I feel we get lots of hoaxers and deceivers on this site. We are not interested in that here.