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An idea for chastity belt lifestyle
Posted: 06 Sep 2022, 20:37
by tightlockup
Hello. I was wanting to share my ideal chastity belt situation as a male Dom. Once the sub and I agreed to do this, I would order the belt, and have her do no unapproved orgasms. However I would let her have as many orgasms as she wants, but the concept is she could orgasm only at my discretion. Once the belt arrives, she would be locked. She would have to be restrained with either hands above her or behind her back to have the belt off. I would take the belt off at least once per day to clean it. While it is off I would tease her in a number of ways - vibes, fingers, mouth. and give her the number of orgasms I wanted her to have. Or, I might tease and edge her for a long while but not let her cum before the belt is put back on.
Note that she would please me orally or anally any time I so choose. Plugs could get involved.
So:
1. There is teasing and probably orgasms for her every day ( if she likes being denied longer she might just be cleaned sometimes).
2. She can no longer touch herself at any time.
3. P in V sex , if it happens, would be totally on my discretion. (if she's a virgin and wants to stay that way, I can make it happen for her)
Any thoughts?
Re: An idea for chastity belt lifestyle
Posted: 06 Jan 2023, 14:33
by Acleverusername
Definitely my ideal too - I’ve always dreamed of a soft-dom type who would lock me up, tease me, and eventually give in to my pleading and begging…
Re: An idea for chastity belt lifestyle
Posted: 28 Jun 2025, 19:02
by MartinII
Nice idea!
Re: An idea for chastity belt lifestyle
Posted: 22 Jan 2026, 03:39
by barebee
Interesting Dom/sub dynamic! The controlled release and denial aspect is intriguing. It sounds like you've considered the importance of hygiene and daily interaction, which is key. Perhaps consider how games like Slope Game, with their focus on controlled movement and precision, might metaphorically mirror the power dynamic you're establishing. The anticipation of release is a powerful tool. Open communication is paramount to ensuring both partners find fulfillment.
Re: An idea for chastity belt lifestyle
Posted: 23 Jan 2026, 07:11
by blackmore01
Interesting take on control and consent! The key seems to be open communication and a clear understanding of boundaries. It’s fascinating how the element of choice, even when seemingly removed, can enhance the experience. Kind of like playing Cookie Clicker – you know you want more cookies, but the when and how is what keeps you engaged.
Re: An idea for chastity belt lifestyle
Posted: 28 Jan 2026, 03:34
by AnthonyRamirez
This sounds like a fascinating dynamic! The key is clear communication and established boundaries. It's all about control and pleasure in equal measure. Makes me think of strategic challenges like in Slope Game, where precision and control are vital to success. The anticipation and denial aspect sounds incredibly intense, especially with the teasing and edging. The cleaning ritual and imposed restraint definitely add layers of power exchange to the whole experience.
Re: An idea for chastity belt lifestyle
Posted: 07 Mar 2026, 07:44
by Gitefetichistes
Acleverusername wrote: ↑06 Jan 2023, 14:33
Definitely my ideal too - I’ve always dreamed of a soft-dom type who would lock me up, tease me, and eventually give in to my pleading and begging…
My opinion as a dominator
I completely understand, because putting a chastity device on someone only becomes exciting if you play with it. If it's just to keep the keys, there's no point.