Some advice please

[HappyH]

Hi - this is my first post, and I'm very new to all this !

I want some advice regarding a chastity belt for me. Let me explain ...

I'm in a very happy relationship of 8 years, and my partner really likes the 'chastity' idea

I bought him a CB6000 last xmas, and we have had lots of fun with that !

Earlier this year, whilst we were engaged 'in the act' I asked him how he would feel if he couldn't be inside me because I was in a belt ?

Well - all I can say is he has never cum in me like that before ...

So, we have had a few months of 'fun' just by telling each other what we would do - but now I'm seriously thinking about getting one. But I'm a bit nervous ....

He is much braver than me about this sort of thing - we have been shopping with him locked, and out for meals etc, and it was great fun - but I'm not sure how I would cope.

Hence I'm looking for advice. How difficult is it to cope with for a woman ? Are you very aware it is there ? I've all sorts of questions, and am looking for 'genuine' experience from another woman that has 'been there - got the t shirt'

Also - any pointers for what type / make are good / avoid etc ?

Thanks in advance

H.

[Admin]

Hi and welcome!

I'm in a very happy relationship of 8 years, and my partner really likes the 'chastity' idea

Congratulations! Chastity is a great spice in a relationship and could help in tying you even closer together.

I bought him a CB6000 last xmas, and we have had lots of fun with that !

A very good Christmas gift.

I asked him how he would feel if he couldn't be inside me because I was in a belt ?

Well - all I can say is he has never cum in me like that before ...

It sounds like you would only wear it to excite him. What about you? What is your view on being belted? You are obviously interested in it but are you turned on by the thought or are you just doing it to excite your partner? A chastity belt can be used in many different ways. For example: as a sextoy, a sexual liberation device, a protection against infidelity, and as an anti-rape device. What belt is best depends on how it will be used. Popular brands are Tollyboy, My-Steel and NeoSteel, all of them located in Europe.

Hence I'm looking for advice. How difficult is it to cope with for a woman ? Are you very aware it is there ? I've all sorts of questions, and am looking for 'genuine' experience from another woman that has 'been there - got the t shirt'

I really hope that someone will answer this for you as I think it is good questions to have answers on.

Written by someone who has none of the experience you are asking for:
A CB6000 should not cause any problem to a man wearing it. A female chastity belt on the other hand is not as easy and comfortable to wear. There are important differences in anatomy between men and women that are impossible to design around. A full belt will cause some difficulties and could cause more frustrations than those of the sexual kind. Wearing it would require quite some getting used to and a quality made to measure chastity belt. A quality belt made with your correct measurements will still have to be adjusted several times before being wearable with something that is getting close to comfort. You could say that a chastity belt is like a pair of high heels. You can learn to wear it but you will have to adjust the way you move around somewhat and you are not likely to forget that you are wearing it. Previously trivial task can become more complicated by the addition of steel underwear.

How much comfort are you prepared to sacrifice in order to be belted? And how much time, effort and money are you prepared to invest to get there?

[HappyH]

OK - I'm back thinking about this again .........

Is it possible to measure yourself, or do you need a helper ??

Thanks

H.

[fitherin]

The answer is yes and no.
If your partner is there to help then take a look at the carrara ste below they have a section on measuring.
Depending on where you live it might be better to take your next holiday/vacation in the country of the belt maker you select.Get measured correctly and inspect the item in person that will soon be a moving part of you.
What ever route you take enjoy the fun and frustration and remember its your choice to wear it

http://www.carrara-designs.be/products/ ... age49.html

[Robert Pinkerton]

1. It is so highly desirable that it ought to be considered essential that another person than the wearer do the necessary measuring.

2. The measurements should be taken on an empty stomach.

3. If you are measured by another person, measure on three different days:
A. The last day of a menstrual period.
B. Midpoint in the cycle between day A and Day C.
C. The first day of the immediate next menstrual period.

4. Take three full courses of measurements each day on which measurements are taken. Note them as to the kind of day in which the measurements are taken, and forward copies of those notes to the chosen maker.

5. When this is possible, however, of course it is better for the lass to make herself available to the Belt-maker for measurement.

[Pyra Gorgon]

@ HappyH

viewtopic.php?f=20&t=151

There is your answer on how to measure.

[HappyH]

@ HappyH

viewtopic.php?f=20&t=151

There is your answer on how to measure.

I'm going to sit down with a coffee and read that - at least twice

Thanks

[HappyH]

I must confess to being slightly scared at the thought of wearing a belt.

[fitherin]

I must confess to being slightly scared at the thought of wearing a belt.

Dont be, if you take your time, choose a belt that suits your body shape and your wallet.
Choose clothes that offer a high degree of overlap at waist band level and dresses or skirts that are of comfortable length to start with you will soon see how little can show.
Enjoy the thrill,
I am sure your husband will take good care of you to ensure that you are not showing any belt equipment when you go out.

Good Luck, remember Pyra will give excellent advice on fit and comfort.
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[HappyH]

I've been doing some browsing around the web, and I found this ...

http://www.dhgate.com/product/cleaning- ... ml#s2-11-1

I think this is the sort of belt I would like to get. I'm not keen on the chains type, nor the solid bar at the rear type.

Does anyone have any genuine experience of this style ? Good or bad ?

I'm still some way off taking the plunge I think, but I am quite enjoying the looking !

Thanks

H.